A lot of women, especially those aged 35-40 suffer from depression the most.

Research has it that women in their 40s are the unhappiest age group. That is, 1 in 4 women, which is crazy as 25% of the population are women in their 40's.

This is very scary and appalling and it is traced down that the major reason for this depression is finding a balance in life and career.

As a woman, you have given most of your โ€œactiveโ€ years to others.

Starting from when you were a kid, you did everything in your capacity at that time to keep the house/family in order.

It becomes very demanding when you're the first child, you automatically become the second mother at that early age.

You got into the college and made sure you were there for all of your friends and colleaguesโ€ฆ Yet no one was truly there for you or maybe one was.

Some women weren't even allowed to go to school because of gender discrimination.

You got married and it felt like your whole existence was sold out to your husband, children and family members.

It becomes hard for you to know yourself or live for yourselfโ€ฆ They call it โ€œsacrificeโ€ just because you're a Woman.


Don't get me wrong, it's okay to sacrifice for those you love, love in itself is sacrifice but then ask yourself, why are you feeling so depressed?

Why can't you shake off this feeling of being cheated?

I'll tell you why, It's because you were made for More!

Some women have sacrificed way more than you and they don't feel the same way you do because they are right where they need to be, but not YOU!

You have more to offer the world than what you've done so far, hence the deep sense of dissatisfaction you feelโ€ฆ

The pain, frustration and pressure keep weighing you down.

There were nights when you cried yourself to bed asking how you got yourself here. With all your dreams and aspirations pushed under the carpet.

It's like going through a circle over and over again โญ•๏ธ

Depression begins to creep in like a thief in the night๐Ÿฅท

Your fears and insecurity break out like an earthquakeโšก๏ธ.

But there remains this strong desire inside of you to be freeโ€ฆYour inner child, screaming and asking for more! Reminding you of those dreams, goals and aspirations you had years ago.

You're not alone sis! I see you! 

Over 2 million plus women are going through the same thing as you but it is time to BREAK OUT! 

It is time to live for yourself!

It is time to be free from the โ›“๏ธ๐Ÿ”— holding you back! 

๐Ÿค And don't say there's no timeโ€ฆ

You're 40, you may still have 30, 40, 50 or 60 more years to live but you have to determine how those years will be.

Decide for yourself to hold the bull by the horns while you still canโ€ฆ It is not too late to get started.

Or do you want to keep wallowing in regrets? depression? Pain? Self-doubt? Or you want to swim out of it and shake off the chains holding you down.

It's not too late to start on a fresh slate! โœจ๏ธ

I know, the thought of starting afresh is scary, but guess what, you are not starting from zero, you are starting from experience. Everything you've learned in the last 40 years will come into play as you begin a fresh phase! So don't let fear hold you back!

Join the RECLAIM YOU one-on-one coaching session with me Energetic EJ, a US-certified life & Transformational coach, an IAC Masteries practitioner, committed to helping women in their 40s reclaim wasted years, gain clarity and become better versions of themselves.

Having helped hundreds of women from different continents of the world and has spoken at different international women's conferences, she is stretching out her hands to hold you as you begin this journey!

It's going to be a one-on-one coaching session, just you and her and yes there are offers you can pick fromโ€ฆ NO EXCUSES


See you at your session! 

– Chinenye J. Okeke.

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